How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 09:35
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Why are people with Asperger syndrome unenthusiastic?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What was your embarrassing moment in front of your father-in-law as an Indian daughter-in-law?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Does not procrastinate.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
What melts your heart every time without fail?
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Democrats be honest, how many of you were wishing that Musk rescue space flight blew up?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
If you could instantly cancel one social norm, what would it be?
What I need from you?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
That's it for today.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Do not set goals—set systems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
What are some good inspirational movies?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Ask yourself:
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
How does it feel to be in a marriage without any love?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Making more friends is a goal.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.